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When You’ve Walked ¼ Mile in Their Shoes — A Candid Conversation with The Regeti’s

SAWL: South Asian Wedded Life • Culture & Conversation • Representation in America


This week on South Asian Wedded Life, Srinu and I sat down to talk about the internet buzz around JD Vance and his wife Usha — but not from the usual political or sensational angle.

We wanted to peel back the layers and ask:

What happens when America finally starts seeing Indian-American families on big public stages, yet still doesn’t understand who we are?

As an interracial couple who’s lived the Indian-American experience from the inside out, we know firsthand how quickly people rush to label, divide, or dismiss what they don’t understand. In this heartfelt episode, we talk about identity, stereotypes, faith, marriage, and what it really means to belong in a country still learning how to talk about culture and difference without hate.


💔 Why This Matters

Representation without education can breed misunderstanding — and that’s exactly what we’re seeing. This conversation isn’t about politics; it’s about people.


It’s about bridging the gap between visibility and understanding, and calling for a more emotionally intelligent America that knows how to listen.

If you’ve ever been “the other” in a conversation — or loved someone who has — this episode is for you.


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    Sundays were made for slowing down… and for tuning back into you.

If the week has been full of opinions, expectations, or decisions that feel heavier than joyful, consider this your gentle reminder: you’re allowed to pause. You’re allowed to breathe. And you’re absolutely allowed to plan a wedding that feels like yours at its core.

This little moment from Rituals & Reflections always feels right on a day like today:

“Your wedding will ask many things of you — patience, presence, compromise…
but the one thing it will never take from you is your voice.”

So if today is your planning day, give yourself permission to approach it with clarity, calm, and softness.

And if you ever need a little guidance along the way… We’re right here. ✨

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    This one broke my heart… and shook something deeper.

When I read about the tragic killing of Spc. Sarah Beckstrom, I felt grief —
but like so many brown and immigrant families, I also felt fear.

The man who took her life was brown.

And history has taught us exactly what happens next.
Backlash.
Suspicion.
Stereotypes.
Innocent families paying for one man’s evil.

So in today’s episode of SAWL, I opened up a conversation that so many have quietly held inside:

💔 Why tragedies like this hit brown families differently
💔 The fear of being blamed for something you had NOTHING to do with
💔 What it means to raise brown children in moments like this
💔 And why we must not let this spark more hate

If you’ve ever felt this fear — or if you’re hearing it for the first time —
you need to watch this one.

👉 Full episode is now live. Link in BIO.

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