It’s one of the biggest debates in wedding planning—should you join your guests for cocktail hour, or take that time for portraits, outfit changes, and a much-needed breather? In this episode, we’re gonna talk pros and cons of each choice, how cultural expectations play a role (especially in South Asian weddings), and whether you can strike the perfect balance between mingling and maximizing your wedding photography. Plus, I’ll share my best tips to ensure you don’t miss out—whether you’re sipping on a signature cocktail or sneaking in a private moment together before the reception.
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0:00 Introduction
1:20 The Importance of Cocktail Hour
1:48 Client Preferences
2:37 Benefits of Joining Cocktail Hour
3:00 Obligatory Pictures
3:49 Parents
4:32 Splitting Wedding Functions
5:32 Hair and Makeup Coordination
6:12 Extending Cocktail Hours
7:01 Bridal Party
7:51 Photography
8:55 Holding Room
9:45 Conclusion
10:25 Questions and Comments
10:57 Future Episodes