Planning an Indian or South Asian wedding is supposed to feel joyful.
But for so many brides… it quietly feels heavy.
Heavy with expectations.
Heavy with pressure.
Heavy with guilt for wanting something different — or something simpler.
Heavy with the feeling of being watched instead of supported.
And no one really talks about that part.
This week on South Asian Wedded Life, I shared a conversation that many brides are thinking — but rarely feel allowed to say out loud.
If you’ve ever found yourself wondering:
“Why does this feel so hard already?”
“Why don’t I feel excited yet?”
“Why does this feel heavier than I expected?”
You’re not broken.
You’re not ungrateful.
And you’re not alone.
This episode isn’t about planning.
It’s about naming the invisible weight brides carry — culturally, emotionally, quietly.
🎥 Watch the full episode on YouTube - (Search Amy Regeti or click the link in bio)
💬 If you feel comfortable sharing — what part of planning your wedding feels the heaviest right now?
This space was made for you.
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27 years ago this week — on December 9th, 1998 — I met a man who would change the entire trajectory of my life.
Not just because I fell in love with him…
but because loving him meant learning how to live between two worlds.
Today’s SAWL episode is one of the most personal I’ve ever recorded:
“Between Two Worlds: The Real Life of Indian American Couples.”
I’m sharing what it really looked like to be the American girl who married an Indian man…
• waiting almost two years for his family’s blessing
• eloping because love couldn’t wait
• blending identities
• fearing I’d lose myself
• finding belonging slowly, then suddenly
• and reliving the wedding I never had through 1,000 of our brides.
If you’re an Indian American couple, a fusion couple, or someone navigating traditions, expectations, or in-laws from another culture — this episode will make you feel so deeply seen.
It’s tender.
It’s honest.
It’s layered.
It’s us.
Watch the full episode on YouTube @amyregeti — and let me know if any part of it sounds like your story too. ♥️
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If posing feels intimidating, you’re not alone — especially in South Asian and fusion weddings where outfits, jewelry, rituals, and expectations stack layer upon layer.
So here are five simple shifts that make a world of difference in your portraits:
1️⃣ Chin slightly forward + down
2️⃣ Soft, relaxed hands
3️⃣ Let your veil/dupatta frame your face
4️⃣ Shift your weight for instant natural elegance
5️⃣ Breathe in… smile out
None of these tips are about perfection.
They’re about presence — showing up in your own skin, your own way, with confidence that doesn’t compete with anyone else’s version of “bridal.”
If you’re planning your wedding and want more guidance — cultural, emotional, or practical — you’ll find it all across:
✨ Rituals & Reflections
✨ REHEARSED (Coming soon!)
✨ RENDERED (coming soon!)
✨ Clarity Calls with Amy
✨ Wedding photography with The Regeti’s
Your wedding deserves preparation that feels empowering… not overwhelming.
Link in comments OR visit theregetis.com to learn more.
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Living between two worlds isn’t easy — even after 30 years of it.
One thing I’ve learned being married into an Indian family is this:
You can love a culture deeply… without carrying the emotional weight of all its expectations.
Sometimes we take on roles — mediator, peacemaker, translator — simply because we’re the ones who “get it.”
But here’s your reset for the week:
You’re not responsible for holding everything together alone.
Not every misunderstanding needs your fixing.
Not every expectation needs your yes.
Ask yourself today:
“Is this mine to carry, or did I pick it up because I always do?”
New SAWL blog is live with a perspective only someone living between cultures can offer.
Start the week with clarity and intention. ✨ Link to BOOK can be found in BIO
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Love fisheye lenses:)