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2007 MDA Heartsongs Gala!

For those of you accessing this link to view the images from the MDA Gala, the link is currently being redirected here to our blog until the images are edited and uploaded for viewing. You will be able to see a few of our (RP) favorites from the event that we wanted to share. The full proofs for the event will be available by Friday of this week for viewing/purchase out of which all proceeds will be donated to the MDA in hopes of sending just a few more of the kids to camp! Once the images are ready the link will then take you directly to the online gallery for viewing.

MDA Gala Heartsongs Images by Regeti's Photography

For our loyal blog viewers and newbies to our blog we are going to share a little bit about the Gala and our experience while behind the scenes of it all and the reason why we felt the need to contribute to the MDA in 2006 and 2007.

For those of you who have been following you are most likely aware that we donated our time to photograph a little of “Camp Maria” in Leonardtown, MD last year in 2006. Let me just tell you that the immense appreciation that the children have for this camp is just profound.

We were approached by a past client, dear friend, and employee of the MDA who asked us if we would cover the event. We immediately stepped up and declined any payment from the MDA in return for our services. As a young girl growing up I can vividly remember watching the Jerry Lewis 21 1/2 hour telethon as my Mother would remind us of how grateful we should be for our lives and health. My Mother would wait it out till almost the end and then pick up the phone, even if only to donate very little to the fund as my parents themselves struggled. Although sometimes I thought it was more in hopes that she was able to speak with Jerry! But either way through that telethon we as children were able to see how much these children really needed the money to help improve the quality of their lives while here with us. I did not really think too much more about the telethon or the MDA while living my life day to day till eventually becoming a nurse for Hospice in which I saw so many different diagnoses that seemed so horrible to have to live through. It was not until I took care of my first patient with Amyotrophic Lateral Sclerosis (AKA: ALS or Lou Gehrigs’s Disease.) He was an employee of the United States Postal Service, until he could no longer perform the daily tasks needed to do his job. He was newly married with step-children that he loved as if they were his own when shortly after he was diagnosed with the disease. I watched as he and his wife coped day to day, as he vastly withered away losing control over all the muscles in his body becoming helpless and in such pain as the days went on until he and his family lost the fight to ALS. I attended his funeral on behalf of Hospice and cried with his family over such a great loss. Up until last May I thought that there was nothing I could do to help in his fight against ALS, other then make him comfortable until it hit me that finally we as a family could give of ourselves in order to help that fight continue for that family and all the families and individuals who are still enduring the fight to find a cure for the 43 known muscular diseases that are out there. So we took our kids and headed out to camp for the day in order to help document and allow the MDA to show everyone just how much this camp means to these children who attend and benefit from it each year. Something our children have the opportunity to do every day of their lives.

Last nights Gala is held every year in honor of Mattie J.T. Stephanek whose mother is also currently fighting a muscular disease after losing four of her young children to muscular disease. After hearing Mattie’s Mom speak last night it made me realize how much we as a family take for granted as well. All the luxuries we all have in life. With this said we felt the need to add the link to our website where you could go and donate money to the Association to make a difference even if it is as small as sacraficing the morning latte or even Biggie sizing your fries. Just imagine if Wendy’s would donate every .39 cents they collected from making your order Biggie size to the MDA what a difference it would make, or even Starbucks to donate every clients’ 5th friday latte to the association what a difference it would make. Or better yet if out of 20,000 hits a month that we receive from this blog if each hit/individual donated $1.00 what a difference that would make!

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Here are some of the images that were shot of the Annual Heartsongs Gala held every year, created with Mattie’s vision and in his name, to carry on his passionate belief that together, we will make a difference.

(Featured country for the Gala was The Philippines)

MDA Gala Heartsongs Images by Regeti's Photography

MDA Gala Heartsongs Images by Regeti's Photography

MDA Gala Heartsongs Images by Regeti's Photography

MDA Gala Heartsongs Images by Regeti's Photography

MDA Gala Heartsongs Images by Regeti's Photography

MDA Gala Heartsongs Images by Regeti's Photography
L to R: James McWhorter (Owner of L&M Produce), Yasmin Abadian of Long & Foster’s Potomac Village, Comedian Larry Miller.

MDA Gala Heartsongs Images by Regeti's Photography
L to R: Ms. Jeni Stepanek, Ron Kuley the Representative for the International Association of Firefighters whose Fill the Boot Campaign has raised a phenomenal $275 Million since its inception in 1954.

MDA Gala Heartsongs Images by Regeti's Photography
Donald Kahn (President of Procurement for Dade Paper)

MDA Gala Heartsongs Images by Regeti's Photography
Radio King Orchestra

MDA Gala Heartsongs Images by Regeti's Photography
Radio King Orchestra

MDA Gala Heartsongs Images by Regeti's Photography

MDA Gala Heartsongs Images by Regeti's Photography

MDA Gala Heartsongs Images by Regeti's Photography
L to R: James McWhorter (Owner of L&M Produce), Yasmin Abadian of Long & Foster’s Potomac Village. Our wedding couple to be wed on March 24th, 2007. Congrats !!!

MDA Gala Heartsongs Images by Regeti's Photography
R to L: Jeni, Timothy P. O’Brien (Attorney at Law, Joseph Greenwald & Laake, P.A.) and Guest

MDA Gala Heartsongs Images by Regeti's Photography

MDA Gala Heartsongs Images by Regeti's Photography
Willy C. Gaa (Amabassador, Philippines)

MDA Gala Heartsongs Images by Regeti's Photography
Tony Perkins from FOX 5, EMCEE of the evening.

MDA Gala Heartsongs Images by Regeti's Photography
L to R: Tony Perkins and Hank Cominiello (President, Eastern Division Safeway Inc. who received the 2007 Mattie J.T. Stepanek Heartsongs Award on behalf of Safeway Inc.)

MDA Gala Heartsongs Images by Regeti's Photography

MDA Gala Heartsongs Images by Regeti's Photography

Below are images of The Philipino American Cultural Arts Society (PACAS).

MDA Gala Heartsongs Images by Regeti's Photography

MDA Gala Heartsongs Images by Regeti's Photography

MDA Gala Heartsongs Images by Regeti's Photography

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  • mjillwilliamsMarch 12, 2007 - 11:10 am

    These pictures are spectacular! Thanks again for all your hard work…you guys are the best!ReplyCancel

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You may know WHAT they’re doing. But do you know why her footprints are red?

Let’s break down Kanku Pagla.

If you’ve been to a Gujarati wedding, you’ve probably seen some version of this: the bride’s feet covered in kanku — the red vermilion associated with auspiciousness — and the footprints she leaves behind.

Sometimes on cloth, sometimes on paper, sometimes carefully preserved. Depending on family, community and generation, when and how it’s done can look completely different.

But the tradition underneath all those variations is what fascinates us. Kanku Pagla literally means those red, auspicious footprints. And the symbolism reaches much further back than the keepsake we see today. In Hindu tradition, Goddess Lakshmi — prosperity, abundance, good fortune — is represented by her footprints. And a new bride arriving at her marital home has long been associated with the arrival of Lakshmi herself. That’s why one of the most recognizable forms of Kanku Pagla occurs during Griha Pravesh: the bride steps into kanku, leaving her red footprints as she enters the home for the first time as a married woman.

Over generations, families carried and adapted that symbolism into their own traditions — including pre-wedding ceremonies like the one we’re photographing here.

And THAT is what we think matters.

South Asian traditions aren’t frozen in time. They travel. They change. They become regional, then familial. Grandmothers teach daughters, daughters teach granddaughters, families move across oceans…and sometimes the way something is done shifts while a piece of its original meaning quietly remains.

So the next time you see a bride’s feet painted red and paper sliding beneath them…don’t just see two little red footprints.

You’re watching a family carry forward an ancient idea of auspicious beginnings, prosperity, and the threshold between one chapter and the next.

Maybe that’s why we’re a little obsessive about photographing things like this.

Twenty years from now, someone will know those are her footprints.

We want them to know why they mattered.
That look right after the jaimala goes on — you can see it here. Garlands still settling, and they're already stealing a glance like nobody else is on that sidewalk. This is one of my favorite in-between moments to catch because it's not posed, it's not planned, it's just two people who can't help but smile at each other.

Fusion weddings like this one are so special to shoot — two families, two traditions, blending into one really beautiful day. If you're planning a wedding that mixes cultures (or doesn't fit in a box), let's talk about how we'd tell your story. Comment or DM us!
They’re not just sticking a colorful piece of wood into the ground. And this may be one of my favorite examples of how much meaning can hide inside a Gujarati wedding.

If you’ve grown up around Gujarati weddings, you may have seen some version of this ritual your entire life.

The decorated post is associated with the Manek Stambh and Mandap Ropan / Mandap Muhurat — the ceremonial establishing of the mandap before the wedding.

Before it is placed into the earth, the post may be wrapped with sacred thread and blessed as part of the family’s ritual. Then it is carried outside and planted into the ground.

But here’s the part I love:

Before we build the place where two people will be married, we acknowledge the earth upon which it will stand.

The Manek Stambh becomes more than a little wooden post. It represents the establishment of the mandap — the sacred space beneath which a new marriage will begin.

And depending upon the family, region and Gujarati community, the customs surrounding it may look a little different. That’s something I’ve learned after more than two decades of photographing South Asian families: there is rarely just one Indian way of doing anything.

Sometimes even the bride or groom knows what their family does because they’ve watched their parents, grandparents, aunties and uncles do it their entire lives…

…but they’ve never actually been told why.

That’s the part that gets me.

Because one day, someone is going to look at photographs like this and ask:

“What were they doing here?”

And I don’t want the answer to simply be, “Oh, that was something we did before the wedding.”

I want someone to remember.

The name.
The reason.
Who held it.
Who tied the thread.
Who taught them how to do it.

Because somewhere between tradition being practiced and tradition being explained is where legacy either gets passed down—or quietly disappears.

And THAT is why we photograph the little things. 🤍
The gasp. The hands flying up. The one friend who literally cannot keep it together. THIS is what we live for.

There's something so pure about the moment a bride's crew sees her for the first time, all dressed up, before anyone else does. Coordinated olive sharara sets, then that red and gold lehenga glowing against them as she walks in — it's real, it's unscripted, and it happens exactly once. We just have to be standing in the right spot to catch it.

Who would you want to see you first — your person, your parents, or your crew? Tell us below, and if you're planning a day full of moments like this, DM us to chat.

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Madhu is ready to get this baraat started - nothing like a morning baraat to really get you moving! There's something so joyful about a daytime baraat - the sun's out, the dhol is going, and the groom is dancing his way to the mandap surrounded by the people who've known him his whole life. That arms-wide, head-back energy? For some it might be McDonald's but for us --- t's why we wakeup early in the morning on the weekends.

If you're planning a baraat and want photos that capture the actual joy (not just posed smiles), let's talk. DM us or drop a comment below!
There will always be a place for a macro lens in our bag. 😍 These are the bride's bangles, and in Indian culture, they carry so much meaning — often gifted by family, symbolizing blessings, prosperity, and the beginning of a new chapter. Getting close enough to catch every sparkle and reflection like this is one of our favorite parts of wedding day details.

What's a piece of jewelry or heirloom from your family that means the most to you? Tell us in the comments — or DM us to chat about capturing yours on your big day! ✨

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That view, though. Shatakshi and Madhu chose the Omni in Hot Springs, VA for their sangeet celebrations, and honestly, those mountains rolling out behind the property? Chef's kiss. There's something about getting a little distance from the everyday that makes a sangeet weekend feel even more special — everyone's there, phones are (mostly) down, and it's just family, dancing, and stories.

@shakess09 @uthsaav @abhishekdecorators @diegostuartfilms @pinnacle_live @omnihomestead @carolinaeliteevents @cbcatering.usa
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We love when a venue becomes part of the celebration instead of just a backdrop. Got a mountain wedding or sangeet in the works? Drop a comment or DM us — we'd love to hear about it.
There's a very short list of moments that can rival a mother's joy on her daughter's wedding weekend — and this forehead-to-forehead hug is definitely on it. Maybe her birthday gives it a run for its money, but honestly? I'm not so sure. The way she cupped her Mom's face just as Mom was getting emotional, mehndi and all, said everything words couldn't.

Moments like these are exactly why we do what we do, why we want to be present for you and YOUR family. Have a mother-daughter moment from your wedding you'll never forget? Tell us about it in the comments, or DM us to chat about capturing yours.

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That laugh. That stride. That candid, can't-fake-it energy — this is the stuff we chase every single wedding season. 😍

So... if you're getting married in 2027, we need to know! Drop your date below 👇 and tell us — are you thinking just photo + cinema, or are you ready to go full Legacy Makers experience with The Regeti's and Diego Stuart Films? Either way, we'd love to chat. DM us or book a consult — let's make your walk this good too.

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Okay, we said it. Somebody had to.

After 20 years and more weddings than we can count, here's what we've learned: the couples we click with best aren't chasing trends or a perfectly styled feed — they want photos that still mean something at their 25th anniversary, when grandparents aren't in the room anymore and that mandap is the only place they still "are." If that's not you, no hard feelings, truly. But if it is... we'd love to hear about your day. Drop a comment or DM us — let's talk.
The bride told us: don't miss the little things. So when the caterer started serving ice cream person to person instead of setting it out on the table, we did what we do best — a little hide and seek to catch it before it melted (literally and figuratively). Pink kulfi in martini glasses, mithai on the side, a potli bag waiting for its moment — this is the kind of detail that disappears in about four minutes flat if nobody's chasing it.

I scream, you scream... you get the idea. Got a detail you're worried we'll miss? Tell us in the comments or send us a DM — we love a good challenge.

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