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Who is REALLY in Charge on Your Wedding Day?

You’ve spent months planning the perfect wedding—but when the big day arrives, who’s in charge? Spoiler alert: It might not be who you think!

In this episode of the South Asian Wedding Guru podcast, I’m breaking down the real wedding-day power dynamics and how to make sure your vision stays on track:

✔️ Who should be calling the shots? (Bride & Groom, Planner, Parents, or Vendors?)

Chapter Timeline:

0:00 – Introduction
0:19 – Who has the final say on the wedding day?
0:42 – The wedding planner’s role
1:31 – What if you don’t hire a wedding coordinator?
2:10 – Venue coordinator and photographer’s role
2:53 – Vendor coordination and potential disasters
3:42 – Importance of discussing concerns with vendors
4:28 – Example of vendor issues due to lack of coordination
4:68 – Key vendors and asking questions
5:11 – Seeking advice from experienced vendors
5:56 – Addressing videographer issues during pre-functions
6:43 – Communication between families and the team
6:56 – Planning the ceremony exit and post-ceremony activities
7:28 – Experience in managing family formals
7:52 – Conclusion and call for comments
7:52 – Please like, share, follow me everywhere
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7:52 – Until the next episode guys I’m going to head out but I’ll be seeing you on the next episode

A stress-free wedding starts with knowing who’s in charge and how to make sure everyone is on the same page.

💬 Have a crazy wedding-day takeover story? Please share it in the comments!

📸 Looking for a photography team that helps keep things stress-free? Let’s chat: https://www.regetis.com

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